You Want to Take Things to the Next Level You shouldn’t start a relationship if you want to fix things or if things have stalled out.
But if things are going swimmingly and you can’t imagine them getting to the next level without being exclusive, it’s time to think about doing what you have to take things to the next level.
You can only postpone moving forward in life and in relationships for certain amount of time, and have it still be considered normal..
But unfortunately these days many times people bring old hang ups, insecurities, and issues from previous situations where they felt hurt in different ways , and they tend to be a bit cautious of becoming exclusive too quickly.
This is the most straightforward and simple way to know if getting into a relationship is the right thing.
For many smart successful women, the dating process often goes something like this… Then you naturally stop dating others and focus on your new sweetie.
You may not have had an exclusive talk yet, but he’s being so attentive. That charming guy begins to show signs of a workaholic. As we talked about in my blog on the #1 Dating Mistake Singles Make, rushing into a relationship often backfires. Even if you think he is the One, continue dating other guys for at least two months.
And, you’re busy with work and other commitments, so you rationalize you don’t have time to keep playing the field. The social, fun loving guy seems to drink just a little bit too much. Even if he asks you to be exclusive right away or says he isn’t dating others, continue to keep your options open.
Maybe it just feels so right that you both agree to be exclusive with one another after a few dates. This is so important because it enables you to compare and contrast different men so you can truly find the best guy for you.