Fast Forward to last night: My girlfriends and I show up to Xino in Santa Monica, dressed up, and ready to make snap judgments about the eligibility of strange men.We were each assigned a number and given a card with three columns printed on it.One of my clearest memories is of sitting in a diner with my mom and a family friend when I was a kid.I’d just ordered a chocolate milkshake (a treat since my mother only kept fruit pops in the house) when the friend pointed to a fat woman sitting at the counter nearby.
Chances are that your neighbor, an associate at work or even a family member is a swinger.
Adult Swingers now, on the other hand, we can make fairly good estimates -- based on information coming from a variety of sources (including the Internet).
Adult Swingers in the past, meeting another couple often took weeks of mailing photos and writing letters before the meeting actually took place.
“Fat” was at once the half-ton monster in “Blade” the large-bellied man using the mobility scooter in Walmart, and my size 14 self who loved to rollerblade.
The different levels of fear and disrespect we all received were exactly what we deserved, I thought.